Tag Archives: teenagers

The Teenage Years

March 3, 2021children, humour, poem, Poetrychildren, humour, poem, poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

All bets are off in the teenage years
You still share your child’s hopes and fears
But they are a child no more –Can you hear that slammed door?
It’s a bumpy ride–Sometimes Jekyll, sometimes Hyde
You love them to bits, you can’t stand them anymore
And there again is that slamming door
You glimpse a young woman, you glimpse a young man –Try to catch them if you can
Sometimes it seems they’re a toddler again –Needing to share some of the pain
Do you remember when this was you?
Now you know what your parents went through……

I thought this would resonate with all those living with Teeenagers in Lockdown…..

Silent Night?

April 29, 2020children, Life, poem, Poetrychildren, family, happiness, Life, poem, poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

The TV and Xbox are quiet
no more Elves fighting Dwarves
or befriending them

The hall way is full of scattered trainers, coats
and, strangely, various hats
cowboy, trilby, tiger, Nessie

Crowded into the room above
they laugh and whisper
thinking they are silent

Sleep eludes us all………

Ah, the days when the house was crowded with teenagers….

Adolesence

October 2, 2019children, poem, PoetryAdolesence, childhood, children, Life, poem, poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

It seems as if your chest is stuffed
with copper wire circuitry
heated to intensity
words do not work
boys grunt, girls cheep
days fly past and last forever
you never feel in control
veering off into agonies

The teenage years

May 1, 2019Life, love, parenting, poem, Poetrychildren, family, love, parenting, poem, poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

All bets are off in the teenage years
You still share your child’s hopes and fears
But they are a child no more –Can you hear that slammed door?
It’s a bumpy ride–Sometimes Jekyll, sometimes Hyde
You love them to bits, you can’t stand them any more
And there again is that slamming door
You glimpse a young woman, you glimpse a young man –Try to catch them if you can
Sometimes it seems they’re a toddler again –Needing to share some of the pain
Do you remember when this was you?
Now you know what your parents went through……

Re-blogged from 2015….This is our second time round with teenage moods and contradictions. And he leaves us for University soon, after which time I’m sure we will long for the thumping around and those “I cant believe my parents are so thick” looks once more!

Dockside

April 20, 2019poem, Poetry, Science Fiction Poetry, SF, speculative poetryEastercon, poem, poetry, Science Fiction, Science Fiction Poetry, space, space station, speculative poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

Neon shattered voices ring across dockside
joshing, laughing.
A gaggle of youth, glories of hair and beard,
jaunt along a just washed walkway,
looking for nothing,
arms linked, heads thrown back
deep laughs mixed with shrill cries.
Pocked skin drawn
tight over smashed cheekbone,
hair frizzy and sculpted
or flopping over acid kissed eye.
Wide grins stretch mouths
faces marred by occupational hazard
adorned with tattoo.
Brightly painted prostheses refract
glitter, crack together
as shoulders nudge hard
in proto-embrace or witty retort.
Tonight, youth’s incandescent joy uplifts,
they will launch into the dark
escape this gravity well tomorrow.
Other crews drift along
washed by unfathomed
tides of rumour and gossip
pushed-pulled to entertainments
you cannot, would not, share.
Our girls and boys josh on
exchanging joyous insults,
impervious to all.
An enclave of companionship
in a lonely night.

First pubished in Wizards in Space 3, a print journal, https://wizardsinspacemag.com/

I’m at Eastercon (the UK national Science Fiction convention) this weekend, with paintings in the Art Show……..

Conversation with a teenager, playing a computer game

June 23, 2017Life, parenting, philosophy, poem, Poetryfamily, Games, parenting, poem, poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

Him: I have no idea what I’m doing
Me: Welcome to life.
Him: I was in a cave and now I’m not.
Me: Welcome to life. Just go and hug a hen, it often helps.
Him: I wish I could navigate by Crocodile
Me: Don’t we all?
Him: Mum, why are you talking nonsense?

Re-blogged from 2015. This conversation really happened— and going to speak to or hug one of our hens is a proven family remedy for most of lifes burdens.

Beach

June 22, 2017Life, parenting, poem, Poetrybeach, family, heatwave, parenting, poem, poetry, sun, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

Crunching down the shingle
Drinking the sea breeze
Listening to your chatter
As you throw pebbles into the sea

Heat is no longer the enemy
Its relaxing powers repaired
Breathing salt essence
In gloriously cool sea air

Brothers gently bickering
Who threw the greatest distance
Your deep voices lift in humour
And how we love to listen

Chilling on the shingle
Hanging out with the family
Talking about almost nothing
Companionably

…we went to the beach with our sons to escape the heat, and I broke out in rhyme once more….

A mother to her son

April 26, 2017children, Life, love, parenting, poem, PoetryBoys, family, growing up, Life, love, motherhood, parenting, poem, poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

A mother to her son

When I look at you, I need to look further up
Each time I come home from work you seem to have changed
My eyes devour you
I hug and hold you to discover your changing frame

…re-blogged from 2015….and yes, hes even taller now and still growing. These days I have to tiptoe to kiss his cheek.

The teenage years

March 29, 2017children, Life, love, parenting, poem, Poetrychildhood, children, family, humanity, Life, love, parenting, poem, poetry, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

The teenage years

All bets are off in the teenage years
You still share your child’s hopes and fears
But they are a child no more –Can you hear that slammed door?
It’s a bumpy ride–Sometimes Jekyll, sometimes Hyde
You love them to bits, you can’t stand them any more
And there again is that slamming door
You glimpse a young woman, you glimpse a young man –Try to catch them if you can
Sometimes it seems they’re a toddler again –Needing to share some of the pain
Do you remember when this was you?
Now you know what your parents went through……

Re-blogged from 2015….

Boys

March 11, 2017children, Friends, Life, parenting, poem, Poetryfamily, Friends, Games, Gaming, Life, parenting, poem, poetry, Technology, teenagersThe Cheesesellers Wife

Boys

Long legged boys
Filling my sofa
Controllers in hand
Deep laughs mingle with shrill cries
As Black Ops rolls
Every weekend they come to call
Filling my sofa
Littering shoes in my hall
Then are gone in a flash as dinners beckon
And the sofa is empty